It's so sad that love (to her friend) makes her Tia afraid. I think we do pass fear to our kids if we don't explain the connection. Maybe (hopefully?) Tia is only afraid of how others might treat Belinda?
Hard to tell. You explained well the confusion when a kid is "gifted" with shame. It can happen so fast, but take so many years to overcome!
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It's so sad that love (to her friend) makes her Tia afraid. I think we do pass fear to our kids if we don't explain the connection. Maybe (hopefully?) Tia is only afraid of how others might treat Belinda?
Hard to tell. You explained well the confusion when a kid is "gifted" with shame. It can happen so fast, but take so many years to overcome!