I did what I consider my last confession back in 2015. At the time, I was in a really dark place with regards to my queer identity and the religion I'd grown up with. It wasn't a bad experience but ever since then I haven't really felt connected in the way I used to. In any case, I'm not 100% welcomed in church and I'd never be allowed to marry in a catholic church so there's really no point in me going to confession anymore. But being queer and being religious was such a strange and stressful time for me.